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Leaving a dog with family for a week: the training handoff
A trained dog does not carry its training like luggage. It carries habits tied to the people who hold the leash. When family steps in for a week, the dog quietly checks whether the old rules still apply. This guide covers the rules sheet, the skills worth handing over, and a practice ladder your family can climb before you go.
Last reviewed October 4, 2026
The rules sheet
One page, written in the words your dog knows.
Start with your exact cue words. If you say place and your sister says bed, the dog hears two different requests and may answer neither. List each cue, what it looks like when done, and how it is released. Add the marker word you use, the reward you use, and where the treats live. Keep it to one page so it gets read, not filed.
Then add the house rules that tend to drift: furniture, doorways, food on low tables, the crate schedule, and who feeds when. Note the walking tool your dog wears and how it fits, since a slip lead or training collar used wrongly can blur good habits. Finish with your vet's number and a plain note to call the vet if anything seems off physically.
- Exact cue words and release
- Feeding times and amounts
- Crate and furniture rules
- Vet contact and emergency plan
Practice ladder
Rehearse the handoff before the suitcase comes out.
Rung one: your family watches you run a short session at home, cues and all. Rung two: they take the leash while you stand nearby and coach. Rung three: they walk the dog on a familiar route without you. Rung four: a short stay at their home, with the dog's crate, bed and food brought along. Each rung shows where the dog tests a new handler.
Safety comes first at their place. Walk the yard for gaps, check gates and doors, and agree that the leash goes on, held by an adult, at every exterior door. Children in the household stay out of the training; adults run the cues, kids enjoy the dog calmly. If your dog has any history of guarding or snapping, say so plainly and get a professional assessment before the stay.
Asked and answered
The questions people ask us.
How do I make sure family follows my dog's training rules?
Give them a one-page sheet with your exact cue words and house rules, then show them rather than just telling them. A practice walk with you coaching helps more than a long explanation.
Will a week with family undo my dog's training?
Habits can loosen if the rules change, and some dogs test a new handler. Consistent cues and boundaries make that less likely, and picking your routine back up the day you return helps settle things again.
Should I bring my dog's crate when leaving them with family?
If your dog is crate trained, bring the crate, bedding and usual food. Familiar gear gives the dog something consistent in an unfamiliar house.
Can a trainer help my family handle my dog?
A Private Training session is $150 + GST for one hour and comes with a written plan, which can be built around a handover. Book a consultation and we will tell you honestly whether that is all you need.
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